I got a call from an old friend today, she was looking for a recipe and told me a great story. She has been breastfeeding for many years and is not particularly discreet and not easily intimidated, but she was eating in a nice restaurant and nursing her 20 month old and her young waiter advised that she was not allowed to nurse in the restaurant to which she replied," oh honey, he's not nursing, he's just licking my nipple while he falls asleep" The young man was flabbergasted and did not return to their table for the rest of the evening. They had a nice meal while the baby slept peacefully :)