Ruth, For your mom who can't get baby to latch.You're right to suggest lots of skin to skin. Have you tried nipple shells or pumping just before feeding. I've avoided finger feeding lately as I've had a few that have gotten as stuck on this as a bottle. At the ILCA conference this summer their was a wonderful talk about bathing with baby to aid with difficult latch problems. I have seen this work and if nothing else the mom and baby have a greast time. Have mom try it when baby is rousing, and try is once or twice a day over several days. Babies get real sucky doing this. Good luck Linda Rosetti RN, IBCLC Clarkston, Wa. [log in to unmask]