Katherine, Ideas and titles are not copyrightable. Only the arrangement of words in a written work are protected. The only exception is when one tries to cash in someone else's success by copying their works' title, and when the title is a registered trademark. (What to expect the First Year" has no tm symbol after the title, I just looked at my "donated" (by a disgusted client) copy. I think you would be well within your rights to write "What I was designed to expect". That's a book I would be happy to see in print. Catherine Watson Genna, IBCLC