Hello All, I am Kathleen Doerr LLL leader for 5 years, mother of 3 ages 8, 4 , and almost 2. I live in a Houston suburb in Texas USA. I have been lurking for about 2 weeks. I have been enjoying on going discussions but don't know that I have had more that .01 to add so I wait in the wings. I met some of you at the LLL conference in Chicago and put some faces with names I knew from a previous online life. The letter from Ilene about being a zealot struck home but so did the reply from Paula I am a zealot but I try and focus my energy in areas where I am not as likely to offend. Sometimes the seed can be planted and grow years later. In high school I had a mamogram done to check a lump, the Dr's comment that I just had dense breast tissue and I would make a lot of milk for a baby someday, was casual for him, but planted a large seed for me. I try to see those plantable spots. Back to the woodwork KatDoerr @aol.com