Marie -- <"Maybe we should having a discussion on inducing lactation in men." Unfortunately, I know many of my moms would go for it, but how about the men??...actually, if a mom/dad insist that daddy *needs* to feed the baby, I suggest that the most helpful (to the mom) time for him to feed would be at 3:00AM!!!while she gets some sleep. Most of them agree at that point that there are a lot of other ways they can bond with that baby!! Trying to get them to see it *my*way, but subtly... Kathy Rubin IBCLC RN Freehold NJ