Judy,
I suspect that your missing messages are just out-of-order due to the
international population we have on Lactnet.  Though my e-mail software sorts
things by time and date, they are relative to geography, not absolute.  I
often wind up reading answers before the original post. I wonder if the
listserver could run a compensation program, or if we could all agree to use
Greenwich time?  What about it, Kathleens?
Catherine Watson Genna, IBCLC