Slightly off the wall response, But I'm wondering if a women's physiotherapist could have something useful to offer in this situation? They have quite a lot of expertise with women who are experiencing sexual orgasms, and they might have something useful to offer in this situation. Eithne Murray *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome