Hi Julia,
I think what Pat said about having a premie and being separated is
certainly part of mom's problem, but
if you read the below url, I think you may find further pertinent info.

http://www.second9months.com/guest-post-when-nursing-makes-you-sick/

D-MER or dysmorphic milk ejection reflex

Laurie Wheeler RN MN IBCLC
Mississippi USA

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