Hi Julia, I think what Pat said about having a premie and being separated is certainly part of mom's problem, but if you read the below url, I think you may find further pertinent info. http://www.second9months.com/guest-post-when-nursing-makes-you-sick/ D-MER or dysmorphic milk ejection reflex Laurie Wheeler RN MN IBCLC Mississippi USA *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome