On 16/12/2010, at 12:38 AM, Pat Young wrote: > We do need articles about how BF does help women be their "fuller" selves and how to cope if need time for other activities :-) Not exactly ... what we need is a society stop forcing mothers to choose between caring for their babies (including but not limited to breastfeeding) and 'other activities' (ie engaging in public - as opposed to private - life). While ever mothering (and especially breastfeeding) is constructed as a 'private' activity, and while ever babies and children are not welcome in public life (and if you think they are, try taking a baby with you to work, or a school-aged child to a meeting during school hours, or even to do the shopping), women will feel they have to choose between their babies and themselves (I want my life/my body back!). That is not a fair choice. refuse to choose Nina Berry Australia *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome