Hmm I wonder if anyone had a thought that maybe this mom could not breastfeed? We are a society so quick to judge others. Perhaps this mom had cancer and had no breasts. Maybe she wanted to breastfeed so bad that this was the best she could come up with to feel close to her baby. We've all had clients desperate to breastfeed but could not for a physical/psych-social reasons. Then the little boy calls her stupid. Gee wonder where he learned that. "shes just stupid for not feeding bo!" (Bo was his word for nursing.) Watch what we say to our children. This saddens me. I have lost many to cancer and most of it breast. I guess I'm too sensitive to this.. Feeling yucky today, robin *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome