Jacqulyn, I had the same thing happen today in our SCN! A mom with twins had started out non-nutritive breastfeeding, but had not put the babies to breast in several days. Now her little boy twin is going home tomorrow, and has not had much practise. When I asked her about this, she told me that she can't breastfeed because she has to bring her older child with her to the SCN, he is a boy, and would see her and that she was uncomfortable about this. She will be working on breastfeeding when she takes the baby home, while the older child is at school. I am trying to understand these feelings she has, and it's been difficult. Sometimes it's so hard to try to be non-judgemental! Brenda Phipps, BS, IBCLC *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html Mail all commands to [log in to unmask] To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or [log in to unmask]) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet or ([log in to unmask]) To reach list owners: [log in to unmask]