I have found guilt to be a poor motivator. Shame too. If it is after the fact, I see no need to dredge up history. Unless a woman has unresolved issues and needs to discuss. Susan in Minnesota rn ibclc *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET email list is powered by LISTSERV (R). There is only one LISTSERV. To learn more, visit: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html