Dear Friends, One reason we have Lactnet is to discuss issues and help each other learn. Every once in a while things get heated but I have noticed that sometimes various posts seem more accusatory or inflammatory than others. Please take some time and re-read one's posts and make sure what you are saying is said in a way that others can learn from and not be offended by. When people feel defensive, they can not listen which means one's posts are wasted. Often we write things that seem ok to us, but are read differently by others. Keep this in mind when posting and try to see how what you say will affect others. Remember to write with respect, just as you want others to write respectfully. Thank you, Kathy Eng, BSW, IBCLC *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html