Dr. Jennifer Tieman's post on this subject is beautifully put. I especially like this part: >Truth doesn't have to be painful, and we don't have to choose between >sharing the truth and supporting the mom where she is at. To suggest otherwise is to create a false dilemma. Kerry Ose *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html