Brenda, what a beautiful story! If any of these women have another child, I bet they will be lining up to get appointments with you when they are 6 mos. along, just to be properly prepared. Their reaction points up once again how deeply BF affects us - we sometimes need to defend ourselves and our private defeats, toward total strangers, years after the fact. How tragic is THAT? Sometimes taking the high road requires almost superhuman restraint but I think it's always worth it. If the other people don't come around, you can gloat with no guilt about what a much better person you are than they are, and if they do start taking another look, as they did here, you don't need to gloat. (.Y.) Rachel Myr Kristiansand, Norway *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html