Hi, Beth: One of Paula Meier's booklets on nursing your premature baby has a couple of excellent photos demonstrating the dancer's hand position, if you can get ahold of a copy. Have you also considered a referral to a therapist? She could evaluate the baby to determine the exact problem and show the mother positioning and possibly oral exercises to help with the floppy cheeks. Good Luck. Pam Hirsch, RN,BSN,CLC Clinical Lead, Lactation Services Advocate Good Shepherd Hospital Barrington, IL USA *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html