In a message dated 10/3/2003 2:45:36 AM Eastern Standard Time, [log in to unmask] writes: About there being no one position that works for everyone, well, DOH! At the risk of being grossly misunderstood, there's no one position that works for everyone in any intimate contact sport, esp. those driven by oxytocin. We're versatile and our bodies fit together in different ways. I'd hate to think what our love lives would be like if we only knew *one correct way* to put bodies together (not to mention how it would be if we had to learn that *way* in a ward room in a hospital after just experiencing one of the most profoundly changing things in our lives, with new staff coming to help on every shift, and not being allowed to go home until we got it *right*). And with that, I'm off to the trenches. Think about it. Rachel Myr Kristiansand, Norway why haven't you written a book? (or have you???) i can think of very few that make as much sense/ are as informative as your posts and yet are so fun to read! ::::jacqui gruttadauria, who is also still very much entertained at thinking of herself as a dinner plate areolaed mumma to 2 carp-mouthed babies :-) ::: "bobo, what are you doing to deedle?" "pankin him butt, mumma" "bobo, we don't spank in this house" "ony pank him outside, mumma?" *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html