Oh Nikki! We all feel for you. "She said that she had different expectations of our relationship, and that she wanted someone more positive and affirming. She felt that she was doing better until I came along." What on earth does she mean by this??? Did she want you to give her 'permission' to 'give up'? She may have felt better before because she had no idea how bad she was actually doing, and you were trying to rescue her for a worse case senario! "She is still bleeding."........................and so are you now! And you know what...what goes around comes around! Cyber hugs Karen Clements Melb Aust *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html