Karleen, I share your concern about this case! I wonder if there is any way to convince this mother to stay home with her baby and let someone else do the traveling and picking up the other babies. I have been faced with the prospects of traveling to pick up one baby, while having another still nursing. In 1990, a group from our AF base, in Germany, traveled to Romania, to find babies in orphanages to adopt. I thought about going with them, but Thomas was still nursing and there was no way I was going to leave him and come back with another baby. Taking him with me was out of the question, since AIDS and Hep B were rampant over there, among other things. So, even though, at the time, I thought my prospects for being able to adopt anymore children were pretty slim, I had to decline. When I went to Miami to pick up Joanna, in 1995, Joseph was 21 months old and still nursing, and there was no way I was going to leave him for a week and come back with another baby (Actually, I wouldn't have left him, even if he had been bottle fed). So, I trekked to Miami lugging a 30 pound toddler, with my nine year old to help me make it back home with two babies. It was well worth the effort! The two babies bonded quickly, tandem nursed for a few months, and have always been very close. I wonder if the mother in question would consider the idea of the advantages of having these children bond with each other, and avoiding anything that would tend to interfere with that. Taking it from a baby's point of view, I can't imagine the trauma of having one's nursing mother suddenly leave and then come back with another baby. It would be kind of like having one's loving husband suddenly disappear and return quite a while later, with a new wife! Darillyn _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your messages with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html