>We have recently had a Mom (and she is not the first, unfortunately) who was >HIV + have a baby who was admitted to the NICU. Mom's condition is UNKNOWN >to Dad! Seems to me that a social worker needs to be brought in to work with the Mom on this one. She may need help and support in figuring out how to tell the Dad and empowering her to do so. Also, while legally you cannot tell him the mother's HIV status, is the same true of the baby's status? It is his child too after all and he is also responsible for the baby's care. *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html