I would like to add to this debate, that I really don't like nursing pillows at all! ~ reasons 1. Mums now think this is part of the breastfeeding 'kit', and taking the 'empowering' away from the mothers - all they need are breasts and babies, except in special situations. 2. The cost of breastfeeding is being 'pumped up' by all these 'necessary accoutrements', it is now probably financially cheaper to formula feed! - we don't need to add to the reasons why mums don't bf 3. Makes bf 'too difficult' - they have to lug a giant pillow with them everywhere they go - so now it's much more 'convenient to bottle feed'! - (to add to the list) 4. Mums actually do not know HOW to use them! - they think it is to rest the baby on. I have seen many mums and the numbers are quickly increasing where the baby is resting on the pillow rather than being positioned and supported by mum, with nipples so badly sore and cracked that you wouldn't believe (well OK maybe people on this list would!)all due to poor p&a due to the pillow. 5. If mums feel they need 'support' (when I suggest they don't use the pillow), I remind them that the pillow is for MUMS comfort and not babies, so if the babe is latched well but mum needs support for their arm, then use an armrest or 'a' pillow (not necessarily a 'c' one), likewise if it's to protect a cs then fine, but on no account should it be used for baby. Wobbler over with! Ta Pam ABM BFC UK There are several reasons I don't like that particular pillow. Of course there are many different people and I am sure it works great for some. I find mothers using it and laying their baby across it and then lean down to nurse the baby. On tall women it doesn't seem to be tall enough for baby to reach the breast. I also have found that on larger women it bends and creates a hole that baby slides into. It also doesn't fit very well around a large post-partum belly. I think that if you are relatively small or short, that many of these issues don't happen. It always seems to be on tall or large women that I have problems with the boppy. Just wanted to share the other side. :) _________________________________________________________________ Join the world’s largest e-mail service with MSN Hotmail. http://www.hotmail.com *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html