Kathy, I think the book you are looking for is "For Your Own Good:  Hidden
cruelty in child rearing and the roots of violence" by Alice Miller.

Barbara Wilson-Clay BSEd, IBCLC
Austin Lactation Associates
http://www.lactnews.com

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