Cathy:

 as I was reading you excellent post it occurred to me how we accept some
idiosyncrasies and not others. how many people travel with their own pillows?
how many people have a preference for the side of the bed that they lie on?
lights on or off? blinds drawn? heat up or down...

  we accept these in adults but not our children...

   Patricia

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