Cyndi, regarding the new Daddy whose wife has HELLP, please pass along my name and email to him. I am on the board of the HELLP Syndrome Society and can offer him a great deal of information and support at this time. I also survived HELLP (barely). I will be happy to help them in any way that I can. If it hasn't already been suggested, perhaps the Denver milk bank can help him out. They were the ones who came to the rescue for my triplet mom/via surrogate with 25 weekers. The docs in Austin Texas are the ones who convinced the neo to allow it, they had never even heard of a milk bank before. Let me know if I can help. In the mean time, the web site for HELLP is http://members.aol.com/_ht_a/HELLP1995/hellp.html --- Denny Rice, RN, IBCLC --- Dallas, Texas *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html