Yael I am not 100% positive, but LLL used to have a handout "To the grandmother of the bf baby" which explained gently the reasons for bf, the changes since her day etc. I would imagine it is still in print. Have a look, it might be what you need... don't reinvent the wheel! Fiona Hermann New Zealand *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html