>is it just me who has trouble when I'm reading about nursing, as in feeding, and then nursing as in working as a nurse? as we've said before, in Australia, to nurse an infant just means to hold them on your lap. and nurses working in maternity hospitals are midwives, so it doesn't get so confusing. this is not meant as a criticism - but just a language thing. Lisa Amir, Melbourne, Australia As an expat Brex patving in upstate NY, USA, I can certainly sympathize! When I first moved to the States to get married in 1973, I thought that people said *nursing* because *breastfeeding* was not an acceptable word, at least in the newspapers. When my first baby was born I made a point of using *breastfeeding*, because to me, nursing a baby meant rocking it. It took me quite a while to realize that while most mothers here still start out *breastfeeding* - i.e., feeding the baby at the breast, *nursing* encompasses a great deal more. *Nursing* is nurturing, a whole way of mothering. One day you wake up and wonder how you could possibly take care of your baby WITHOUT breastfeeding, and that is when you realize that you are nursing. One of my favourite questions from mothers is *How will I be able to get my baby to sleep after he weans?* The answer, of course, is that when he weans he won't need to nurse to sleep :) Now I've got that straight in my head, I still need to work on my Americanized spelling...or should that be Americanised? Norma Ritter, IBCLC private practice in Big Flats, NY [log in to unmask] ________________________________________________________________ YOU'RE PAYING TOO MUCH FOR THE INTERNET! Juno now offers FREE Internet Access! Try it today - there's no risk! For your FREE software, visit: http://dl.www.juno.com/get/tagj. *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html