Because the issue of the language we use has come up several times lately I
would like to add my pet wording uses -

ABM - I have always assumed this meant "Artificial Breastmilk" or "Artificial
Baby         Milk."  I think a better, but still imperfect, reference to
formula would be the term I hear used by lots of Lactation professionals -
"Breastmilk Substitute" or BMS.  The words Formula and Artificial Breastmilk
sound like good things.  I think Breastmilk Substitute gives moms a better
feel for what it is, even though there really is no substitute.

"Nursing on demand" - With the new AAP Guidelines that specifically state that
crying is a late indicator of hunger I think the phrase I have been using for
several years, "Nursing of request' , also gives new moms a better and more
positive idea of what is to expect.  I have always thought the the word
"demand" gave a very negative image of an infant indicating that he wants to
nurse.

That's my 2 cents worth.
Sue Reiske, LLLL