I have read the exchanges pertaining to breast play (or not) and sexual
expression, stimulation, etc.

Years ago (I won't saY HOW many) I read a wonderful satirical piece about
the function of elbows in sexuality. Basically, the author simply used the
elbow as the site of sexual excitation and then described how it could be
used "to get a man," the role of gloves (the kind that go up above the
elbow and then can be provocatively removed (or not! depending on the mood
of the woman), the importance of covering the elbow except when in the
presence of certain individuals, eand the like.

It was side-splittingly funny and made the point K. Dettwyler was making:
we are taught that certain body parts/portions have sexual meaning and then
they do. In the absence of such training, they do not have that connotation
at all.




Def. of LC service: "We are all faced with a series of great opportunities
brilliantly disguised as impossible situations."
Kathleen G. Auerbach,PhD, IBCLC (Homewood, IL)- [log in to unmask]
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