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"<Martha Brower> (mgb)" <[log in to unmask]>
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Wed, 2 Aug 1995 22:11:38 -0400
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Dear Ilene:

I think the issue here is one of informed choice.  All mothers have the right
to full information regarding health decisions for their children and for
themselves.  Denying anyone full information (no matter how uncomfortable it
may be to deliver that information) is depriving them of their full informed
choice.  That said, I think that your real question is how do we make women
see that the "right choice" is breastfeeding.  That is an entirely different
subject.

Here is my personal philosophy:  I speak the truth (as best I know how) in a
manner that is informative, not judgmental.  I might say: "You know, I think
it is important for every mother to learn as much about infant feeding
options as possible so that she will be able to make the best decision for
her and her baby.  I know that you have probably seen ads for formula, but I
want to tell you about the food that is not advertised...."  I always end by
saying" You don't have to make your feeding decision today--in fact, you may
decide to wait until the baby is born.  If you decide that you want to
breastfeed, remember that it is not supposed to hurt.  If it does hurt, ask
for help.  If breastfeeding hurts, it may mean that you need a better
teacher." Then I invite them to attend a breastfeeding class to learn more.
 I have had mothers tell me that they chose not to breastfeed even after my
"song and dance" but when they return with the next pregnancy, they remember
what they were told and often wish they had BF and plan to do it this time.

We are planting acorns.  It is not necessary to plant full-grown oak trees.
 I feel that I have made progress if I have even planted the tiniest seed of
doubt that abm is not equal to HM.

Want to hear my shotgun approach?  "I tell people that I was fed formula and
that now the formula that I was fed is considered not fit for babies.  I then
ask them how they think I feel.  Then I tell them--" I feel experimented
on!!"  I end by telling them that the last major improvement to formula was
in 1984 and those children are only 11."

Sorry to talk so long--its my favorite subject.
Queen Rant 'n Rave

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