Carol wrote:
Subject: choosing about feeding
< 'some mothers will breast feed (sic) one of their children but not the
> other, not so much on account of their increasing experience, but because
> the individual personalities of their babies mean that it feels right to
> give one a bottle, the other the breast. >>
>>okay, you know me, i can't, just cannot, resist - maybe it's the one you
want,
>you breastfeed, the baby you don't want, you bottlefeed? there's more, but
i
>will stop here.


 Have you ever seen the old Trout  films (1980's) about bonding etc.?
There was one that involved a set of twins and the parents were definitely
unkind to one of the babies because they thought that the baby did not like
them!  Rather pathetic,though interesting.   ~ Mary Shine