Kath....

  maybe not so weird..... is the spitting up a problem? or just something
this child does?

   infants and children, unlike adults will return excessamounts of food
rather than burden their stomachs...they do not know that it is impolite when
one has eaten too much not to just remove what does not fit.

   all of your suggestions re intake sound good. she can make more of a point
to feed one side before adding more low fat....burbing to remove air, letting
mer flow out and not into baby....

    I would back step first and look at wheather we have a problem or are
creating one....

                  Patricia