> For Dad:
> Those are his playpretties and he will be jealous of the baby
> (I have heard this several times in bfing classes!)

Ooooh, this is a particular pet peeve of mine! Usually somebody also brings
up "But breastfeeding makes "them" seem so functional and unerotic!" At this
point I usually ask if since one use's ones mouth for the function of
eating, talking etc. one refrains from kissing or since one does any number
of things with the hands if they are not used for sexual pleasure.  Of
course, one could go on about the "functions" of other body parts
associated with sex...but usually they get the gist at this point.   I've
had a number of people respond pretty well to this.

Sincerely,
Andrea Simmons, LLLL
St. Louis MO

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