Thank you Jaye for bringing this important topic.I have seen so many mothers 
with that problems that you have described and they have a lot of guilt 
fellings.I have seen many mothers with sore nipples or with unrest babies that 
have told me that they are " afraid" from their babies what's cause them a lot 
of guilt feeling that they can't handle it.Most of them are crying while they are 
talking about it.
My attitude is to give strength to the mother and to tell her the she is the 
best mother that her baby has no mater what she is doing.
I don't like to see mothers with guilt feeling because they can't accomplished 
the perfect breastfeeding.I always supprt her with her decision.
Liora Levin, RN, midwife, IBCLC.

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