Dear Carol Brussel and Everyone:
  First, I hope that everyone everywhere is savoring the richness of our
lives.
  Secondly, I would like to add something to Carol's revenge fantasy:
"here's my thought: i will be hunting down and severely browbeating every
single person who teaches a mother to "help" her baby to latch on by pulling
down vigorously on the baby's chin, and forcing the baby's mouth open with a
finger."
  My addendum: "and every one who takes the back of the baby's head and screws
that sweet little head onto the breast like screwing in a lightbulb."  Warmly,
Nikki