Melody:

   first of all is sounds as if you two are working together well andgoing in
the right dirrection....

   a rule on thumb that I use is that it takes as long to get out of the
situation as it took to get in... I do not always tell mom's this a  is can
disharten them.....

    when did the suck problem start? it is possible that we may not be able
to race the beginning when none of you were there... the baby may improve w
itha combination of flow and caloric intake...


             Patricia