Dear Maryelle:
 You wrote:
>My moto for BF mothers who are a little scared of what people would say
>is : do it until someone tells you not to. Someone once said its easier
>to apologize than to ask permission.  I rarely do things like every one
>else and believe me I rarely had to apologize.

Right on!!!  I wish we could clone you -- what a truly magnificient role
model and cultural change agent you are!

Martha