>When a new member arrives in a family, the "love bucket" of each member
>gets BIGGER, not smaller.  In other words, our capacity to love INCREASES.
>It does not remain the same.
>
I always remember reading a book by Jane Asher where she reassured mothers
concerned that they would not be able to love the second child because they
loved the first so much; that love is like a cake, but with each child the
cake gets bigger.
And my grandmother always said "Babies bring their love with them".

Lesley McBurney
Brisbane, Australia
NMAA Breastfeeding Counsellor (Clayfield/Wilston Group, Qld)
Publications Revision & New Publications Working Groups
Admin Assistant, NMAA Qld Branch office
International Conference Registrations Committee
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