Dear Jay, I agree with Gail on this one.  They will learn, hang in,
encourage mom, don't be too co-dependent or you will be over there nursing
the babies frequently....................The only time I ever used "wet
nursing" to good advantage was when a pumping mom's milk supply was so
low, baby still in hosp., but coming home soon, pumping mom nursed a
healthy 6 week old baby a few times.  It did amazing things to her supply!
This was in the days before moms were <gasp> allowed to touch their
premies.  Sincerely, Pat  in SNJ