I have no problem with people not liking the video. 

I have quite a strong sense of disquiet, however, in comments that 
suggest the video doesn't live up to the 'right' way to do things.  I'm 
concerned there is a process going on, that is substituting one set of 
culturally imposed ideas, for another.  The idea that no one but the Mum 
being there afterwards as someone how being more intrinsically 'correct' 
is quite disturbing to me.  What happened to mothers choosing? 

In the context of this video, do we really think that WHO, Unicef and 
WABA, went about imposing a birth ritual on a mother without her 
consent?  Or are we just simply stating that no mother would choose to 
have her baby latch under those conditions?  Or that if she did, she was 
obviously without proper choice and proper information?  There are 
several layers to discussing the 'wrongness' of the scenario - in terms 
of the mother and the onlookers, that do ring alarm bells with me.  Who 
are we to make these assumptions, and judgements?  Certainly I'm not 
comfortable for myself with the throng - but it's not my birthing 
experience here.  And the video plainly states there has been a 
significant increase in breastfeeding rates as a result of this 
intervention.  Again, who are we to criticise the cultural practices we 
don't like, and suggest the way we would choose is somehow more correct?

I have a friend who gave birth at home two weeks ago.  She is a crunchy 
birther, who did not have any medical people present.  She chose to fill 
the house with family and friends, and they all watched the birth, and 
the first latch.  I do believe there was even some cheering.  Shall I 
email her now, and tell her how wrong she got it, and how no one else 
should have been there?  Come to that, I chose for my husband to only 
attend after the birth, and to be with us both afterwards for several 
hours.  And quite frankly, heaven help any doctor who'd come in and made 
an excuse to drag him out.  I'd have ripped his head off for 
interrupting MY birth with his expectations of what I should do.  
Empowering mothers who aren't sure is one thing, setting in stone how IT 
SHOULD BE, is quite another.

I think for all the flaws, the fact that everyone breaks into applause 
when the baby latches is precisely what we're missing in our culture - a 
celebration of a golden moment of life.  No one, to my knowledge, bursts 
into spontaneous applause in the maternity unit, when the formula bottle 
is plugged in, after baby has been sanitised, dressed, swaddled in 
blankets and popped into it's plastic box.

Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater.

:-)

Morgan Gallagher



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> Diane, another thing Michel Odent has always stressed--mothers need to be uninterrupted after the birth--no one should be in the room at all. He always talks about how he makes an excuse to drag the dad out of the room right after birth--b/c w/o interference moms and babies do the right thing! I am sorry, Morgan but I do not see this video as proof of competency (although I understand your point that folks do not even know this is possible)

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