Quoting Winnie

 I would like to offer some suggestions in case you find that isn't
working....   telling her she is "wrong" which may make it even more difficult
to seek help. After all, many people are reluctant to admit when they've been
wrong.  ...By saying that there are other approaches that moms have found
works better for them, she just might be more open to seeking help when she
reaches her limit.
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Thats good advice, thanks I have to try that- I know that when people switch
to me they often say that they left the other doc b/c they walked out of there
crying feeling like they were doing everything wrong- I just don't know how to
balance what to say when they are putting cereal and babyfood in the bottle at
2 wks and up- I'm probably doing the same thing (telling them they are doing
everything wrong)

 :(

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