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Lynn Shea <[log in to unmask]>
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Mon, 30 Oct 2000 15:13:45 EST
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In a message dated 10/29/00 7:21:29 PM, [log in to unmask] writes:

<< Do n't
they realize that most of this info is readily available to parents,
whether you give it to them  or they get it on the net? >>

Dear Loni,  This is a perfect point-well said Pat!
Why is it that your job is on the line when they are the ones giving
inaccurate info?
Needless to say I would begin the letter with a positive approach ie. "these
are the most commonly addressed areas in my teaching" then go on to list all
of the areas that you have heard the most backward ridiculous advice on, with
the right advice, well referenced of course. You can tell them that you
understand the confusion caused with conflicting info., that you want to
familiarize them with the info you share and why you choose to share it! Its
a perfect oppurtunity, I think! I might even capitulate and tell them that
you apologize, that perhaps you could have shared this info. from the
beginning and avoided any  potential probs and that of course you want to be
on the same "team". I might even offer them the chance to observe your
practice, class whatever or offer them an inservice on any areas that they
may still feel at odds with you about. I might also add that you realize that
there are certain areas that are "open to interpretation" , maybe frequency
of fds. etc. and that you try to encourage families to be open to this in the
search for what works for them!
AND I would try to find a way to include Pat's point as above since it does a
lot to make the whole thing seem super silly!
Lynn Shea Rn,Bsn,Ibclc- "former" hospital LC,stories such yours a big part of
the reason for "former"!!

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