Fiona:

    You quite eloquently stated the situation... While "they" do not want to
hear this.. do they have any documentation that she should not bf? is there
any data to indicate harm from bf while preg? you have said that after
implantation it is a "standard" preg... i can not imagine that there is
anything in the implantation process that puts something in her system that
is harmful to the nurseling and there is not sufficient hormones to
"dislodge" anything unless it is not "well seated" to begin with.

     Good luck ....

             Patricia