Hi all,

I am just reading the posts about growth spurts and evidence and 
realise that I have not seen the first posts.  However, I agree, 
there does not appear to be evidence, although I have not extensively 
researched this topic.

Generally, what I see is the baby has a need for extra 
breastfeeds.  These feeds may be for the nutrition, as well as, often 
needed for comfort and the feelings of safety and security that 
breastfeeding also provides.  As Heather states, "responsive 
feeding".  The mother responds and provides the nutrition 
(breastmilk) as well as the comfort and security.  The baby is then 
able to make that next leap or gentle progress in their development.

Many adults when starting a new job or in a new situation will reach 
out to a mentor or friend for a chat to reassure and comfort them as 
they learn their new roles.  Sometimes this is done over a meal or a coffee.

When we respond to our babies (children, friends), we are able to 
help support them as they learn about a new situation and process the 
information.

Often when speaking with mums who seem to be glued to the apps about 
development and growth leaps, I discuss the individuality of each 
person and how they need to look as their baby as a unique 
individual, who doesn't know about the app and will grow and develop 
with responsive breastfeeds where their mother look and listen to 
them rather than an app.

I do realise this isn't about reflux (which is where I believe this 
thread started), yet I agree with Heather, respond to your baby and 
feed frequently if they are in a phase where they need the closeness 
and security and nutrition.

Ruth Berkowitz, IBCLC; BFHI Assessor & Educator;
Grad. Dip Counselling; ABA breastfeeding counsellor
Melbourne Australia

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