On Dec 30, 2007, at 5:15 PM, LACTNET automatic digest system wrote:

> **That is true, Lynn, and yet I prefer this hard process to never ever
> coming to some kind of insight and understanding. What I find tricky in
> women who don't understand where their situation went wrong, is that 
> they
> pass their story on

I totally agree.

In our local birth group, it is a fine line to walk, because there are 
moms who figured it out, who want to lay it on the line for the moms 
who haven't quite gotten it yet, and that kind of enlightenment by 
force is pretty awful.  They don't let anybody get away with the "oh, 
it just happened to me" stuff.

Maybe I should get a LLL communication skills person to come up and do 
us a short workshop to see if we can get a handle on the empathy part.

Lynn in MO

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