> is there any particular reason they
 > can't um, BREASTFEED for even a couple lousy days?

Actually, there may be...for a small number of women it may be culturally
extremely difficult to do even this, and some of them may have suffered
sexual abuse or have such severe problems with body image that the idea of
using their breasts in this way is just not possible.

We do well, I think, to remember that bf is more than just a great and
healthy way of getting milk into babies... we know (us on this list) more
than anyone that bf is a social and emotional and even psychosexual
phenomenon. We can't really  begin to address some of the massive barriers
that some women experience with regard to feeding their infants...it is
essential to give good and full and accurate information, of course, and
not hide the full truth about the risks of ABM, and to give the fullest
possible support to bf and help with problems.Formula feeding mothers need
to know there is help if they change their minds, and they need the chance
to discuss their feelings, if they want to.

Any bf  activist or supporter or professional worth their salt can do this
without adding to anyone's guilt about feelings and impulses over which
they may have little control, and  which they may choose *not* to share
with us.

Heather Welford Neil
NCT bfc,  Newcastle upon Tyne UK