Linda,

Here are a few books which you and your friend may find helpful:

The Anguish of Loss by Julie Fritsch w. Sherokee Ilse
Empty Arms:  Coping with Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death by Sherokee
Ilse
I Know Just How You Feel...avoiding the cliches of grief by Erin Linn
Miscarriage: A Shattered Dream by Sherokee Ilse and Linda Hammer Burns

Some of these books have lists of other resources, organizations helping
parents deal with loss and grief.

All best wishes to your friend, and you,

Janaki Costello, IBCLC, CCE, CD, LLLL