>I cannot change
>everything at once.  I have to pick and choose the battles

Winnie, I think you'll have done your work for the *year* if we lactnetters
can adopt your reinforcement of Barb Whitehead's term "formula salesmen".
That simple, effortless change could *begin* to make others uncomfortable -
the first unsettling that gets them off dead center.

They are salesmen, and boy, does that put their doughnuts in a different
light!
--
Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC  Ithaca, NY
www.wiessinger.baka.com

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