Patricia,

Thanks for your good words...yes, I agree that probably the shock did change
things -- I hadn't thought of that specifically.

<< I think that she does not need hormonal treatments but does need support,
 enougagement and safe places to talk and grieve.
  >>
You're right on this aspect too -- and yes, I think she truly, really, in her
heart, wants to be pregnant again.  (And she's such a neat mom, she needs
another child!!)

Jan Barger