In view of the recent tragedy in CO, and the fact that I've just finished
Brenda Hunter's book "The Power of Mother Love", and I've begun to  read
"Lost Boys" by J.Garbarino, all lead me to realize that for many moms
staying at home or working IS a choice.  And we just don't get the impact
on the kids.  Over the years I've realized that being able to stay home
when the children were little was a gift my husband gave me AND our
children.  There is a time for everything in it's season.  We need to learn
to be content in whatever season we are in!  Sincerely, Pat in SNJ

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