read, reread and think about anything that looks funny before you comment. Many of our personal messages have gone on to the NET because we/one was not careful.

Don't jump to conclusions, I really enjoyed seeing how your various minds worked when that sick message got in.

Many of us know each other well, sometimes too well. No one is perfect and we can all make tart comments about each other (especially me who has stored up all sorts of things for 20 years), but being smart is being kind, courteous and forgiving (of as many as possible - we know as Evi always says- there are exceptions).

That was my behavior lessons of the month.

EVI, enjoying rain and the start of autumn in NY. My daughter in Tel-Aviv is complaining about catching a chill from the air-conditioner.